Welcome Jaya ji, and thank you for joining us at The Literature Today!  We are excited to discuss your multifaceted journey and your compelling work, including कलयुगी नारीवाद

The Literature Today: Your book aims to explore the concept of “true feminism.” In your view, what is the key difference between true feminism and the so-called ‘Kalyugi feminism’?

 True feminism is about taking responsibility for yourself and your family, creating opportunities for people, and fulfilling duties with equality. If we ask for equal opportunities, true feminism is about stepping up, working hard, and making a positive impact and creating the opportunity not just demanding and begging about it. On the other hand, Kalyugi feminism often takes advantage of society or others, using empowerment as a way to justify selfish actions and personal greed. It misrepresents true empowerment by copying negative behaviors often associated with men in the name of equality, focusing on superficial displays or showing off the body instead of meaningful change. Kalyugi feminism distorts the essence of feminism and loses sight of true equality and growth. And the kalyugi feminism is spreading like a poison- we need to stop it by giving the true example of women empowerment.

The Literature Today: You’ve touched on both patriarchy and matriarchy in your book. Do you believe society needs to move toward a balance, or lean toward one structure over the other?

 I believe society should move toward a balance, not lean toward one structure over the other. Both patriarchy and matriarchy have their limitations and flaws. Patriarchy often suppresses women’s voices and rights, while a matriarchal system could, if taken to an extreme, potentially reverse gender inequality but still maintain an imbalance. True progress lies in creating an egalitarian society where power, responsibility, and opportunity are shared equally, regardless of gender. We need to focus on dismantling hierarchical structures altogether and fostering a culture of mutual respect, collaboration, and equality for all people. Balance allows for the best of both worlds — valuing the strengths of each gender while ensuring neither is oppressed or privileged.

The Literature Today: Nowadays, feminism is often misinterpreted as male-hating. How does your book attempt to break this misconception?

In my book कलयुगी नारीवाद, I address the harsh reality that, nowadays, feminism is often misdirected towards hatred of men, but the truth is more complex. Women today may express anger or resentment, but it’s not necessarily toward men—it’s often toward the lack of equal responsibility and accountability that many women themselves are avoiding. Too often, women seek benefits without equally contributing to responsibilities. I highlight how, in some cases, women can become barriers to the progress of other women, suppressing and dominating one another, while simultaneously blaming men for everything. This self-imposed suppression and the cycle of shifting blame only perpetuate the problem. My writing calls for women to embrace responsibility, not just seek rights and benefits, and to support each other in creating real progress, rather than perpetuating a culture of division.

The Literature Today: Did you face any criticism or backlash for addressing such a bold and sensitive topic?

 If yes, how did you deal with it? Yes, addressing such a bold and sensitive topic has certainly invited criticism and backlash, particularly from those who feel uncomfortable with the idea of women confronting their own role in perpetuating certain societal issues. Many found it challenging to hear that women themselves can sometimes be barriers to their own progress or to the progress of others. Even women are criticizing more than men because i have talked about what we should give not only take from the society. To deal with this, I reminded myself that real change often comes from uncomfortable conversations. It’s important to challenge existing narratives and push beyond superficial discussions. I chose to approach the criticism with patience and openness, using it as an opportunity to engage in deeper dialogue. I focus on staying grounded in my message, which is rooted in truth and a desire for collective progress—not blame. Ultimately, I believe that progress requires facing uncomfortable truths, and while it may be difficult at times, it’s necessary to create a more equitable and understanding society for everyone.

The Literature Today: What inspired you to write on such a socially charged subject? Was there a personal experience that pushed you toward this theme?

 I was inspired to write on this socially charged subject due to the growing disconnect I observed between feminist ideals and the reality of women’s own actions. Personal experiences, witnessing how women sometimes hinder each other’s progress, pushed me to explore this complex dynamic. I felt the need to challenge conventional narratives and spark meaningful conversations.

The Literature Today: What was your writing process like for this book? Was it emotionally or mentally challenging to write about this issue

The writing process was both emotionally and mentally challenging, as it required confronting uncomfortable truths and examining sensitive societal issues. I spent a lot of time reflecting on my own experiences and observations, which made it a deeply personal journey. However, the challenge was necessary to deliver an honest and thought-provoking message.

The Literature Today: In your opinion, what truly defines an empowered woman in today’s world?

 An empowered woman in today’s world is not just someone who focuses on her own growth, dollars and independence, but also takes responsibility of her family and loved ones. Empowerment is about balancing personal success with fulfilling duties toward those who depend on you—whether it’s caring for aging parents, supporting your family financially, or contributing to social causes. It’s not only about selfishness or self-policing; true empowerment involves compassion, empathy, and a willingness to uplift others. Building your own success, while ensuring you create a space for your family, and investing in the well-being of those around you, is what defines a truly empowered woman. Empowerment is not about ego, but about making a meaningful impact in both your personal and social spheres.

The Literature Today: Do you think men also have a role in supporting real feminism and changing the mindset of society? If so, how?

While men certainly have a role in supporting real feminism and challenging societal norms, I believe women themselves must take a more active role in supporting each other. Often, women can be their own biggest obstacles, with jealousy and competition holding back progress. True feminism thrives when women empower each other, rather than pulling each other down.

The Literature Today: What message would you like to give to women who may be misunderstanding feminism as being against men?

To women who may misunderstand feminism as being against men, I urge you to first understand what true feminism really is. It’s not about taking advantage or being selfish; it’s about empowering yourself while fostering equality for all. Blaming men for your situation or condition only reflects a lack of courage to stand up for yourself. If you’re in toxic situations, recognize that it’s within your power to break free—empowerment requires strength and courage to start your own journey, regardless of the challenges. Dear woman you are not object don’t objectify yourself just for money. Stop showing off ,Be an intellect soul more than a sexy body.

The Literature Today: After this book, are you planning to work on any related themes or upcoming projects you’d like to share with your readers?

 Yes,I want to continue sparking conversations about personal responsibility and the importance of creating healthier, more supportive communities. Stay tuned for more on this journey! and i have been making content on my Insta@techieprettygirl about the real feminism and empowerment. Lets connect and discuss.